The site itself is quite formal, but overall its satisfactory. Screening does help to weed out incompatible matches.
Pros
The guys who wrote nice messages.
Cons
the process of autorenewal is designed to catch you out. I cancelled auto-renewal, but EH still took annual membership money from me. EH claimed that I auto renewed (how do we prove otherwise?). I WILL NEVER USE AGAIN, OR ANY AFFILIATED SITES. A REAL SCAM. DO NOT TRUST THEM. CRIMINAL.
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