Like another reviewer I joined a couple of times on a 3 day pass. To go for a whole month is too expensive (like all dating sites) and had far too many scammers (like all dating sites). However, once you get used to their tricks and know what to look out for, you find their are plenty of genuine people on there.
I was fortunate enough to arrange meetings with a couple of women which was fun, and made contact with several others. I'm happy to say I'm still in regular contact with 2 ladies and continue to meet a third on an irregular basis.
For me, joining up was definitely worth it, but I think I got lucky (in every sense of the phrase). Would I do it again? No. They need to slash prices and work to clear out the cam girls, and then I might consider it.
If you want to try it, use a 3 day pass and CANCEL AS SOON AS POSSIBLE AFTER PAYING.
Pros Genuine people, and I got laid!
Cons Too many cam girls
Too expensive
Auto billing
I've used SH for a number of years and as a single male it has generated quite a few meets for me, some amazing, some amazingly bad. However, and this is an important caveat, I am very well hung, have pics of myself in action, and have worked VERY hard at generating meets. I have put a LOT of time into it, and the meets haven't come easy, they've had to be earned. So, in conclusion, if I - with those things in my favour - have only had a reasonable time on there, you do wonder about the experiences of other men using SH...my suspicion would be that they wouldn't be crazy about it...
If I have a criticism of the site it's that it seems terribly reluctant to "get with the programme" and make it all about who's hot. Culturally I think it still has one foot firmly lodged in the old-school perception of swingers ie. overweight people in their 50s planning dogging trips, when the world has moved on, and now there are fit couples in their twenties and even teens looking to spice up their love life.
Overall though, the site is at least pretty spam free (which was one of the nightmares of Adultfriendfinder when I was a member there), and it's at least better than many of the sex sites I've heard about.
Pros Very few spammers, not too expensive, improving website.
Cons Bit stuck in the past, too many overweight, 50+ couples on there if you're looking for really hot people to hook up with, like all sex sites it takes some serious work to generate meets.
All the guys are fakes. They have no profiles, because they are not paying the site. It is an absolute joke. They take money from vulnerable women, and give them fake dates. There are actually no men in this age range on their site.
I joined this site approx 5 weeks ago, and have frankly struggled. I have managed to have vague conversation with a few women on here. And did make it to meet one.
It was during these discussion that I have really figured out what is happening. My experience has been that many of my e-mails have been ignored, those that have responded have done so with just a one liner. The effort from women has frankly been poor, and I was baffled as to why ? you don?t have a picture on display (this is normal on this site ? you have a password protected picture on the site and share the password with someone when you want to), I am average height, build, have a good job, am degree educated and my profile was intelligently written ? so although I fully accept I am not everyone cup of tea, I was surprised by such a lack of interest. I think I know why. Men have to pay a high amount to join, but for women its free. I assumed this would swing the numbers in the males favour, but it does not. I had at least 3 women say they are getting 30+ approaches a day from men, and simply do not have the time to read them all. Also as its free for women I think many of the female members are there for a bit of flirtation or to feed their curiosity, they are not really committed to want to get to know someone or to meet anyone, and as its free they have nothing to lose. Interestingly some women said if they had had to pay they would not have joined ? why should they when they can join free elsewhere. I actually think this is one of the better and more professional sites, I have not been inundated with spam, or false e-mails as I have on others. That?s said I have spend a lot of money to be part of some huge chasing mass of males chasing a few women, many of which are just on there for the thrill of the chase. 5 weeks in and I have messaged every profile that?s is of interest (and that?s across 3 counties) who has actually logged on within a week, those that haven?t are in my view clearly not that active or interested. To have totaled just a few vague chats and 1 meet is not a great outcome from what amounts to over 100 messages I have sent. I have set up an alert for new members, (women aged between 30 and 54 in the 3 counties I mentioned) and new members are around 1 per week.
Not sure what I will do next, but to pay such a high amount to be part of such a large chasing pack, chasing such a few genuine female users is just not good value. For me I won?t be renewing.
yes there are cons on the site, arent they everywhere, but i have been on and off it for two years (the two years was because I hooked up with someone from there and had the best sex of my life ever!! Met three other women from there, had fun camming with three others and have two more to meet. Dont be a dick, engage in conversation, dont just ask for a quick bit or send them photos of your bits - you can do that later!!! Put some effort in, afterall you are paying for the pleasure. perhaps i should set up a service getting guys some meets lol!!
Pros real women ARE there..!! And boy are they good!!
Cons Yes there are scammers but lets be honest - what 23yr old is going to want you?? seriously!!!!
I was thinking of using this site so very quickly set up an account - name only with no profile details, photo or anything else - just to have a quick look around the site and see how good it was, how it worked, number of users and that sort of thing.
Within six hours I've received three interest e-mails and of course I will have to sign up and pay to read them.
How could anyone be interested in a profile with absolutely no details.
This is clearly a scam and should be avoided.
Pros None
Cons Clearly scam interest e-mails to get you to pay.
The search function is rubbish - you can't even select a few basics like what the other person is interested in.
Ok - I took the plunge at ?135 for 1 month. Mostly it seems to me that the women on here are genuine, but here are my issues.
Its free for women - so there are a lot of timewasters who are not that bothered, many of my messages have not even been opened, and many more just ignored, without them even checking my profile. I have wasted a lot of precious time.
Many women are arrogent and state they will ignore gits or virtal kisses, they want you to take the time to write them a nice e-mail, I get why, but then so many are ignored its gets frustrating.
Its seems the balance of men paying a fortune and it being free to women means I have wasted a lot of time money so far. My profile is well written, I have a good job, I travel. People can only see your pictures if you send them a password (meaning I am not being overlooked because I am not good looking), so when you add that up, although I know I wont fit the bill for all, it seems odd that so far (3 weeks in) I have only managed to strike up conversation with 2 women, depsite sending over 60 e-mails / gifts. I am going to look for a site where both women and men have to pay - hopefully a more reasonable amount
Pros does not seem full of scammers
Cons free to women - to many time wasters and ignored messages.
Just t expensive. I would keep paying if it was about half the price.
What a complete utter waste of time this site is, being free it is only populated by timewasters, people who want a cheap thrill without any intention of doing anything, if I could delete my profile I would.
Guys, and probably Girls, you are wasting your time, get pissed, play tiddly winks, watch paint dry, drill your own face, pull your own teeth, it will be more fun than this site.
Pros Desperately trying to think of one, oh yes it is free, but so is shit.
Cons Utter, utter waste of time, filled with idiots, vast geographical areas meet someone local defaults to the entire country!, the site that people go on when pissed at two in the morning, because it is free.
First read their terms and conditions in great detail. Even if you sign up for a limited or fixed term with no renewal they will ignore this and continue to dip into your finances. To get out you have to pay. Is the site worthwhile? Doubtful. In their system Manchester is within 20 miles of London. Not exactly UK local! Send a message and that will cost you. Really is a total waste of time. You may have some enjoyable conversations with ladies looking for a little on line excitement but that is all!
Pros Tittilating at best!
Cons Downright fraudulent with all the deceptive tricks in the book. I think they could rewrite the book on deception and add a few new ones!
Ok I thought i would try this site as I am single and didnt want anything too heavy.
The only girls online seem to be on for hours on an end every day ?? and some will respond to you but then when you sugesst a meeting up possible exchange of phone numbers they stop answering you.
Also tried finding the above girls in the near me bit but yet none of them show but all live a mile from me. Challanged one about local landmarks came up with a few shops ...which had closed months ago.
You get random messages all the time like check out my profile etc which havent come from genuine people. Again checking whos viewed me at 3 people how can I have 30 inbox messages. AVOID this site it wants reporting
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Pros Good idea in principle but the only ones who pay are males ???
Cons Random messages from people that will never reply the ones that do who are on your door step will run a mile when challanged.
Waste of money you would be better off on POF at least thats free for both sex's
Their website is fake with the exact same users showing ONLINE at anytime of the day or night. They never reply and even after 7 days of site downtime those same users will still online the moment the service was restored.
After contacting their customer services and complaining about 7 days downtime, The customer service agent felt it customary to change my profile orientation to GAY and update my status as "Loves Nasty Cock". This to me is homophobic, discriminitive and outright unacceptable.
Stay WELL AWAY FROM THIS SCAM
Pros Cant think of ANY to be honest, other than the ability to be a moderator for their site, constantly reporting those wanting Western Union Money Transfers before they meet you.
They really dont take the hint that in no way my last 4 digits of a credit card along with a £30 Western Union Payment confirms I am not a serial killer.......
Cons Huge amounts of downtime, Staff as helpful as a condom with holes, Expensive and many users "seem" to contact you but when you really look into it, these are system generated messages from computers not Humans!
I originally joined as a free member which was completely useless. Apart from being able to browse female profiles there was hardly any other benefits. I received a large ammount of mail from young glamorous ladies funnily enough ,all who semed to live in the same town as me!rnHowever I took the plunge and signed up for the 30 day special. Ensuring that my credit card was cancelled before the end.rnI found that filling out a good profile stating what I wanted, and what I would like in a lady, coupled with pics (not cock, only face) got results.rnI got chatting to several genuine likeminded ladies and actually met two for nsa sex..rnOne lived some distance away, and although the sex was good because we both rnworked, and had committments logistics took over and we stopped meeting.rnThe second lady called topptottie on the site is a stunner. Mature, sexy, great figure, and insatiable for sex. The bonus is she only lives 20 miles away. Although I've left the site I still get fantastic sex so I would say that two encounters within the 30 day period was a good return on my investment rnrn(doeg)
Pros Make sure you do a good profile and include a pic or pics.
Cons Lots of scammers, and fakes on site. I found that genuine women called me for a chat or sent an email attracted by the profile
Have not been able to log on for 3 days now, and when I did there seem to lots of girls from US, and Ghana, and they all looking for love and sole mate, and on top of that you seem to get a lot of hookers ,who want money to meet .
Ok, tried this site, and again just to make sure. Totally wasted my money in my opinion.
Layout is ok and works, but limited to what you can do without being a full member. To be expected I guess, but maybe a daily allowance to at least view profiles that 'may' have viewed you......and this is where it goes a bit wrong!!!
When I say 'may' have viewed, there is an unbelievable amount of contact from profiles that are either totally false, or have no intelligence other than to copy and paste, word for word, a 'message'. I suspect the former.
Every day you will be inundated with messages from NEW and existing so called members, yet they are never actually written in a personal style and the content is very ambiguous, i.e. have been mass produced with no direct reference to any information you may have put on your profile.....and you see the exact same 'message' day in, day out from random 'members'. Hence the credability of these being genuine profiles, or maybe more to the point, having been sent by that person I think are dubious to say the least. You will also get these messages, but amazingly they havn't actually viewed your profile (how do they do that???)
Most of the time, the member who has viewed you is suddenly an inactive member, and if you do actually get a profile that you can reply to, half the time the message gets returned saying 'they have a filter on to block you as there is something not compatible on your profile'.
In summary, I would spend my money elsewhere, as there are a lot better sites where you will have more chance of actually getting to chat and meet like-minded people.
Pros Struggling to think of any.......
Cons Spoilt by the alleged messages you receive.....in fact spoilt doesn't describe it. Totally wrecked is more appropriate.
Not good value, based on the fact that if you take out the spam messages, there is little left to go on.
Cougarlife attracts many guys who are only interested in sexting, naughty pics, video sex, sharing erotic stories. I've received almost 800 messages since joining and I can count on one hand how many guys I've actually met. I'm not saying that any of what I mentioned is wrong, it's just that some of the guys are very deceptive. They really aren't interested at all about meeting you but preted they do. Let me forewarn you ladies that it's the white guys who want to sit at home and please themselves. Never met a black or Hispanic guy who didn't want the real thing! I'm just saying....Again, nothing wrong with a little sexting etc. but please guys, get off this site and pay for those services. There are women who make a living talking sex. So pay up you freaking cheapskates!!
Pros Very few pros. Potential to "meet" younger guys.
Cons The guys who join are shisters. They want pics, naughty talk and NEVER want to meet. Nothing wrong with that but many pretend they want to meet but are just into the whole virtual thing and are not willing to meet for sex, dinner, a cup of coffee. Good site if you are looking for virtual sex..
I had used this website to go on a speed date however found to my shock a month later that they had by default placed me on a "Platinum" membership which has to then be cancelled otherwise you will keep getting billed on a monthly basis for a full membership!!
On realising this,I tried to cancel the automatic subscription online.You have to request a "Cancellation Code" which is then sent out to your email inbox which is then not valid!!
This then means you have to call them at which time you are told that it is not possible to phone and cancel a membership , even though they have added it automatically online!
Beware before signing up for any speed dates with this outfit as they will cream off some additional cash before you finally realise what is happening!
Cons Places you on an "Automatic recurring membership" which then deducts funds from your account and is a nightmare process to cancel!
well , all I have to say about this site is that although it's fairly expensive it can work for you . Firstly if you only want to join for a short period you should cancel any repeat billing immediately . If you've got any problem doing this contact support by email and the are generally helpful . Upload your profile with a pic if you can because women like to see who they're dealing with . Most emails you receive are usually generated but you will notice when you receive a genuine one . then make contact if you've paid up and if you're lucky it may end up in a meet . I had a couple of no strings meets and one of them turned out to be one of the most intense nights of my life . But you do have to persevere to get the benefits . Overall you get what you pay for . If you pay nothing , you get nothing
Just YET another site claiming to provide this that and the other for free, then as soon as you join you realise you cannot do ANYTHING for free. The scariest thing is that this is allowed to be advertised on TV !!!
An absolute utter scam which I'm sad to say seems to be the modus operandi of online adult dating at the moment.
Clearly they didn't get my credit card details ! I'd rather gouge my eyes out with rusty spoons
It is fact that since the beginning of this world neither male nor female could live alone. They always needed the companion for every walk in life. The Silver Cupid . com is doing a very good cause of searching the companion for such lonely persons.
Up to a point anyway! I joined BeNaughty several times on a 3day pass, forgot to cancel next thing I know a big wedge is missing from bank account! Repeat billing is bad! should ask first or opt in! The Forum was good but had the same people on thre day afer day who seemed to take offence if anyone questioned what they said! Very heavily moderated to be PC! Ironic can't talk about sex on a sex site! £15-20 quids a month is ok £40 quids is not! I know you get "discount if you join for along time, but who wants to join for 6 months straightaway? Did get LOTSof 18-35 yr olds sending flirts! Did find a few genuine people and chatted away and exchanged emails etc! even arranged a meet up, but she "fell down the stairs and smashed her teeth and her face was swollen" Luckily this was before I'd set out, so was probably genuine! After that did not answer my text/calls! Had a good time in the forum for a while bayt as I said it got repetetive! Good thing is that several of the forumites, used to arrange gettogethers. I never atttended any as were either in London or York and I couldn't afford the travel/hotel costs involved! Would I join again, maybe, if I won the Lottery!!
Pros Good intelligent people on the forum. Occcasional genuine person on site!
Cons far far too many scammers. If I was asked to Yahoo once it was 200 times! In a month!!!
looks Like the admin from beNaughty have bin bizy here lol
doing there own fake reviews he he cos they Like the rest ARE FAKE
BeNaughty are ALL ABOUT THE MONEY an then some SCAMSITE
full of WORKING GIRLS from nottingham and out an out SCAMMERs
DONT GO ANY WERE NER IT . IT IS A CROK
Worth wading through
Review about BeNaughtyLike another reviewer I joined a couple of times on a 3 day pass. To go for a whole month is too expensive (like all dating sites) and had far too many scammers (like all dating sites). However, once you get used to their tricks and know what to look out for, you find their are plenty of genuine people on there.
I was fortunate enough to arrange meetings with a couple of women which was fun, and made contact with several others. I'm happy to say I'm still in regular contact with 2 ladies and continue to meet a third on an irregular basis.
For me, joining up was definitely worth it, but I think I got lucky (in every sense of the phrase). Would I do it again? No. They need to slash prices and work to clear out the cam girls, and then I might consider it.
If you want to try it, use a 3 day pass and CANCEL AS SOON AS POSSIBLE AFTER PAYING.
Pros
Genuine people, and I got laid!
Cons
Too many cam girls
Too expensive
Auto billing
SCAM
Review about Be2.co.ukI'm still getting bailifs letters about these scam artists. when I challenge the bailiffs they agree with me and don't bother with any further action.
Pros
nowt
Cons
cons is the right word
Not the worst, but wondering if it's actually the best...???
Review about SwingingHeavenI've used SH for a number of years and as a single male it has generated quite a few meets for me, some amazing, some amazingly bad. However, and this is an important caveat, I am very well hung, have pics of myself in action, and have worked VERY hard at generating meets. I have put a LOT of time into it, and the meets haven't come easy, they've had to be earned. So, in conclusion, if I - with those things in my favour - have only had a reasonable time on there, you do wonder about the experiences of other men using SH...my suspicion would be that they wouldn't be crazy about it...
If I have a criticism of the site it's that it seems terribly reluctant to "get with the programme" and make it all about who's hot. Culturally I think it still has one foot firmly lodged in the old-school perception of swingers ie. overweight people in their 50s planning dogging trips, when the world has moved on, and now there are fit couples in their twenties and even teens looking to spice up their love life.
Overall though, the site is at least pretty spam free (which was one of the nightmares of Adultfriendfinder when I was a member there), and it's at least better than many of the sex sites I've heard about.
Pros
Very few spammers, not too expensive, improving website.
Cons
Bit stuck in the past, too many overweight, 50+ couples on there if you're looking for really hot people to hook up with, like all sex sites it takes some serious work to generate meets.
Disaster!
Review about DrawingDownTheMoonAll the guys are fakes. They have no profiles, because they are not paying the site. It is an absolute joke. They take money from vulnerable women, and give them fake dates. There are actually no men in this age range on their site.
To Expensive for what you get
Review about IllicitEncounters.comI joined this site approx 5 weeks ago, and have frankly struggled. I have managed to have vague conversation with a few women on here. And did make it to meet one.
It was during these discussion that I have really figured out what is happening. My experience has been that many of my e-mails have been ignored, those that have responded have done so with just a one liner. The effort from women has frankly been poor, and I was baffled as to why ? you don?t have a picture on display (this is normal on this site ? you have a password protected picture on the site and share the password with someone when you want to), I am average height, build, have a good job, am degree educated and my profile was intelligently written ? so although I fully accept I am not everyone cup of tea, I was surprised by such a lack of interest. I think I know why. Men have to pay a high amount to join, but for women its free. I assumed this would swing the numbers in the males favour, but it does not. I had at least 3 women say they are getting 30+ approaches a day from men, and simply do not have the time to read them all. Also as its free for women I think many of the female members are there for a bit of flirtation or to feed their curiosity, they are not really committed to want to get to know someone or to meet anyone, and as its free they have nothing to lose. Interestingly some women said if they had had to pay they would not have joined ? why should they when they can join free elsewhere. I actually think this is one of the better and more professional sites, I have not been inundated with spam, or false e-mails as I have on others. That?s said I have spend a lot of money to be part of some huge chasing mass of males chasing a few women, many of which are just on there for the thrill of the chase. 5 weeks in and I have messaged every profile that?s is of interest (and that?s across 3 counties) who has actually logged on within a week, those that haven?t are in my view clearly not that active or interested. To have totaled just a few vague chats and 1 meet is not a great outcome from what amounts to over 100 messages I have sent. I have set up an alert for new members, (women aged between 30 and 54 in the 3 counties I mentioned) and new members are around 1 per week.
Not sure what I will do next, but to pay such a high amount to be part of such a large chasing pack, chasing such a few genuine female users is just not good value. For me I won?t be renewing.
Pros
Not full of scammers
Cons
to expensive
to few genuine women
must be you...... dont be a dick... you have to work at it
Review about SexInTheUKyes there are cons on the site, arent they everywhere, but i have been on and off it for two years (the two years was because I hooked up with someone from there and had the best sex of my life ever!! Met three other women from there, had fun camming with three others and have two more to meet. Dont be a dick, engage in conversation, dont just ask for a quick bit or send them photos of your bits - you can do that later!!! Put some effort in, afterall you are paying for the pleasure. perhaps i should set up a service getting guys some meets lol!!
Pros
real women ARE there..!! And boy are they good!!
Cons
Yes there are scammers but lets be honest - what 23yr old is going to want you?? seriously!!!!
Total Scam!
Review about MatureDatingUK.comThis site is totally geared round inticing you in to paying your subscription.
Most contacts are from mid-20s girls wanting to cam-strip in exchange for your credit card details.
And genuine emails you send get swamped by the meaningless ones so are never read!
If you're looking for a genuine mature dating site THIS IS NOT IT !!!!!!!!
Save your money and avoid this site at all costs.
Pros
None
Cons
Too numerous to list.
This site is a scam
Review about MatureDatingUK.comI was thinking of using this site so very quickly set up an account - name only with no profile details, photo or anything else - just to have a quick look around the site and see how good it was, how it worked, number of users and that sort of thing.
Within six hours I've received three interest e-mails and of course I will have to sign up and pay to read them.
How could anyone be interested in a profile with absolutely no details.
This is clearly a scam and should be avoided.
Pros
None
Cons
Clearly scam interest e-mails to get you to pay.
The search function is rubbish - you can't even select a few basics like what the other person is interested in.
Not Great
Review about IllicitEncounters.comOk - I took the plunge at ?135 for 1 month. Mostly it seems to me that the women on here are genuine, but here are my issues.
Its free for women - so there are a lot of timewasters who are not that bothered, many of my messages have not even been opened, and many more just ignored, without them even checking my profile. I have wasted a lot of precious time.
Many women are arrogent and state they will ignore gits or virtal kisses, they want you to take the time to write them a nice e-mail, I get why, but then so many are ignored its gets frustrating.
Its seems the balance of men paying a fortune and it being free to women means I have wasted a lot of time money so far. My profile is well written, I have a good job, I travel. People can only see your pictures if you send them a password (meaning I am not being overlooked because I am not good looking), so when you add that up, although I know I wont fit the bill for all, it seems odd that so far (3 weeks in) I have only managed to strike up conversation with 2 women, depsite sending over 60 e-mails / gifts. I am going to look for a site where both women and men have to pay - hopefully a more reasonable amount
Pros
does not seem full of scammers
Cons
free to women - to many time wasters and ignored messages.
Just t expensive. I would keep paying if it was about half the price.
What a complete utter waste of time this site is
Review about Plenty Of FishWhat a complete utter waste of time this site is, being free it is only populated by timewasters, people who want a cheap thrill without any intention of doing anything, if I could delete my profile I would.
Guys, and probably Girls, you are wasting your time, get pissed, play tiddly winks, watch paint dry, drill your own face, pull your own teeth, it will be more fun than this site.
Pros
Desperately trying to think of one, oh yes it is free, but so is shit.
Cons
Utter, utter waste of time, filled with idiots, vast geographical areas meet someone local defaults to the entire country!, the site that people go on when pissed at two in the morning, because it is free.
If you want a little excitement at a high cost go ahead!
Review about Ashley MadisonFirst read their terms and conditions in great detail. Even if you sign up for a limited or fixed term with no renewal they will ignore this and continue to dip into your finances. To get out you have to pay. Is the site worthwhile? Doubtful. In their system Manchester is within 20 miles of London. Not exactly UK local! Send a message and that will cost you. Really is a total waste of time. You may have some enjoyable conversations with ladies looking for a little on line excitement but that is all!
Pros
Tittilating at best!
Cons
Downright fraudulent with all the deceptive tricks in the book. I think they could rewrite the book on deception and add a few new ones!
A total Con IMHO
Review about ForgetDinner.co.ukOk I thought i would try this site as I am single and didnt want anything too heavy.
The only girls online seem to be on for hours on an end every day ?? and some will respond to you but then when you sugesst a meeting up possible exchange of phone numbers they stop answering you.
Also tried finding the above girls in the near me bit but yet none of them show but all live a mile from me. Challanged one about local landmarks came up with a few shops ...which had closed months ago.
You get random messages all the time like check out my profile etc which havent come from genuine people. Again checking whos viewed me at 3 people how can I have 30 inbox messages. AVOID this site it wants reporting
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Pros
Good idea in principle but the only ones who pay are males ???
Cons
Random messages from people that will never reply the ones that do who are on your door step will run a mile when challanged.
Waste of money you would be better off on POF at least thats free for both sex's
SCAM - Homophobic Staff and No real users! Give your £30 to charity and do something worthwhile....
Review about SexInTheUKTheir website is fake with the exact same users showing ONLINE at anytime of the day or night. They never reply and even after 7 days of site downtime those same users will still online the moment the service was restored.
After contacting their customer services and complaining about 7 days downtime, The customer service agent felt it customary to change my profile orientation to GAY and update my status as "Loves Nasty Cock". This to me is homophobic, discriminitive and outright unacceptable.
Stay WELL AWAY FROM THIS SCAM
Pros
Cant think of ANY to be honest, other than the ability to be a moderator for their site, constantly reporting those wanting Western Union Money Transfers before they meet you.
They really dont take the hint that in no way my last 4 digits of a credit card along with a £30 Western Union Payment confirms I am not a serial killer.......
Cons
Huge amounts of downtime, Staff as helpful as a condom with holes, Expensive and many users "seem" to contact you but when you really look into it, these are system generated messages from computers not Humans!
Yes it is a con.........but
Review about SexInTheUKI originally joined as a free member which was completely useless. Apart from being able to browse female profiles there was hardly any other benefits. I received a large ammount of mail from young glamorous ladies funnily enough ,all who semed to live in the same town as me!rnHowever I took the plunge and signed up for the 30 day special. Ensuring that my credit card was cancelled before the end.rnI found that filling out a good profile stating what I wanted, and what I would like in a lady, coupled with pics (not cock, only face) got results.rnI got chatting to several genuine likeminded ladies and actually met two for nsa sex..rnOne lived some distance away, and although the sex was good because we both rnworked, and had committments logistics took over and we stopped meeting.rnThe second lady called topptottie on the site is a stunner. Mature, sexy, great figure, and insatiable for sex. The bonus is she only lives 20 miles away. Although I've left the site I still get fantastic sex so I would say that two encounters within the 30 day period was a good return on my investment rnrn(doeg)
Pros
Make sure you do a good profile and include a pic or pics.
Cons
Lots of scammers, and fakes on site. I found that genuine women called me for a chat or sent an email attracted by the profile
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Review about SexInTheUKHave not been able to log on for 3 days now, and when I did there seem to lots of girls from US, and Ghana, and they all looking for love and sole mate, and on top of that you seem to get a lot of hookers ,who want money to meet .
Shagbook?....fantasy or reality
Review about ShagBookOk, tried this site, and again just to make sure. Totally wasted my money in my opinion.
Layout is ok and works, but limited to what you can do without being a full member. To be expected I guess, but maybe a daily allowance to at least view profiles that 'may' have viewed you......and this is where it goes a bit wrong!!!
When I say 'may' have viewed, there is an unbelievable amount of contact from profiles that are either totally false, or have no intelligence other than to copy and paste, word for word, a 'message'. I suspect the former.
Every day you will be inundated with messages from NEW and existing so called members, yet they are never actually written in a personal style and the content is very ambiguous, i.e. have been mass produced with no direct reference to any information you may have put on your profile.....and you see the exact same 'message' day in, day out from random 'members'. Hence the credability of these being genuine profiles, or maybe more to the point, having been sent by that person I think are dubious to say the least. You will also get these messages, but amazingly they havn't actually viewed your profile (how do they do that???)
Most of the time, the member who has viewed you is suddenly an inactive member, and if you do actually get a profile that you can reply to, half the time the message gets returned saying 'they have a filter on to block you as there is something not compatible on your profile'.
In summary, I would spend my money elsewhere, as there are a lot better sites where you will have more chance of actually getting to chat and meet like-minded people.
Pros
Struggling to think of any.......
Cons
Spoilt by the alleged messages you receive.....in fact spoilt doesn't describe it. Totally wrecked is more appropriate.
Not good value, based on the fact that if you take out the spam messages, there is little left to go on.
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Review about AdultMatchMaker UKthe first review must have been a press release as its the same as the other sites,yes loads of profiles not many real ppl though
Thumbs down for CL
Review about Cougar LifeCougarlife attracts many guys who are only interested in sexting, naughty pics, video sex, sharing erotic stories. I've received almost 800 messages since joining and I can count on one hand how many guys I've actually met. I'm not saying that any of what I mentioned is wrong, it's just that some of the guys are very deceptive. They really aren't interested at all about meeting you but preted they do. Let me forewarn you ladies that it's the white guys who want to sit at home and please themselves. Never met a black or Hispanic guy who didn't want the real thing! I'm just saying....Again, nothing wrong with a little sexting etc. but please guys, get off this site and pay for those services. There are women who make a living talking sex. So pay up you freaking cheapskates!!
Pros
Very few pros. Potential to "meet" younger guys.
Cons
The guys who join are shisters. They want pics, naughty talk and NEVER want to meet. Nothing wrong with that but many pretend they want to meet but are just into the whole virtual thing and are not willing to meet for sex, dinner, a cup of coffee. Good site if you are looking for virtual sex..
Beware of Speeddater autocharging you and collecting further months subscription charges
Review about SpeedDater.co.ukI had used this website to go on a speed date however found to my shock a month later that they had by default placed me on a "Platinum" membership which has to then be cancelled otherwise you will keep getting billed on a monthly basis for a full membership!!
On realising this,I tried to cancel the automatic subscription online.You have to request a "Cancellation Code" which is then sent out to your email inbox which is then not valid!!
This then means you have to call them at which time you are told that it is not possible to phone and cancel a membership , even though they have added it automatically online!
Beware before signing up for any speed dates with this outfit as they will cream off some additional cash before you finally realise what is happening!
Cons
Places you on an "Automatic recurring membership" which then deducts funds from your account and is a nightmare process to cancel!
sex in the uk does work
Review about SexInTheUKwell , all I have to say about this site is that although it's fairly expensive it can work for you . Firstly if you only want to join for a short period you should cancel any repeat billing immediately . If you've got any problem doing this contact support by email and the are generally helpful . Upload your profile with a pic if you can because women like to see who they're dealing with . Most emails you receive are usually generated but you will notice when you receive a genuine one . then make contact if you've paid up and if you're lucky it may end up in a meet . I had a couple of no strings meets and one of them turned out to be one of the most intense nights of my life . But you do have to persevere to get the benefits . Overall you get what you pay for . If you pay nothing , you get nothing
False advertising
Review about BeNaughtyJust YET another site claiming to provide this that and the other for free, then as soon as you join you realise you cannot do ANYTHING for free. The scariest thing is that this is allowed to be advertised on TV !!!
An absolute utter scam which I'm sad to say seems to be the modus operandi of online adult dating at the moment.
Clearly they didn't get my credit card details ! I'd rather gouge my eyes out with rusty spoons
Pros
None
Cons
The whole thing is one giant con FFS
facts of life.
Review about SilverCupid.comIt is fact that since the beginning of this world neither male nor female could live alone. They always needed the companion for every walk in life. The Silver Cupid . com is doing a very good cause of searching the companion for such lonely persons.
Pros
Very nice effort.
rubbish site
Review about DateClickhave to pay to sent message... sticking to pof
Pros
no pros
Cons
misleading
Totally agree
Review about BeNaughtyUp to a point anyway! I joined BeNaughty several times on a 3day pass, forgot to cancel next thing I know a big wedge is missing from bank account! Repeat billing is bad! should ask first or opt in! The Forum was good but had the same people on thre day afer day who seemed to take offence if anyone questioned what they said! Very heavily moderated to be PC! Ironic can't talk about sex on a sex site! £15-20 quids a month is ok £40 quids is not! I know you get "discount if you join for along time, but who wants to join for 6 months straightaway? Did get LOTSof 18-35 yr olds sending flirts! Did find a few genuine people and chatted away and exchanged emails etc! even arranged a meet up, but she "fell down the stairs and smashed her teeth and her face was swollen" Luckily this was before I'd set out, so was probably genuine! After that did not answer my text/calls! Had a good time in the forum for a while bayt as I said it got repetetive! Good thing is that several of the forumites, used to arrange gettogethers. I never atttended any as were either in London or York and I couldn't afford the travel/hotel costs involved! Would I join again, maybe, if I won the Lottery!!
Pros
Good intelligent people on the forum. Occcasional genuine person on site!
Cons
far far too many scammers. If I was asked to Yahoo once it was 200 times! In a month!!!
ADMIN?
Review about BeNaughtylooks Like the admin from beNaughty have bin bizy here lol
doing there own fake reviews he he cos they Like the rest ARE FAKE
BeNaughty are ALL ABOUT THE MONEY an then some SCAMSITE
full of WORKING GIRLS from nottingham and out an out SCAMMERs
DONT GO ANY WERE NER IT . IT IS A CROK
Pros
yes they are >0
Cons
yes they DO lol#